Advice - Mind, Body and Family, Feb '14
By Dr. Tirthankar Guha Thakurta
When I was working as a junior resident in psychiatry at my mother institution in Kolkata, I had a chance to learn about a large number of interesting ‘cases’. One group of cases was related to nocturnal seminal discharge. Most such patients would say something like this: “Doctor, I am getting weaker day by day. I have lost my appetite, am losing weight, and my sleep is often disturbed. All this has started ever since I developed the bad habit of masturbation. Well, now I have stopped this bad habit. But a new problem has started ever since. My dhat (semen) is flowing out spontaneously, even without any sexual thoughts. Nightfalls have become more frequent. Even when I pass urine, dhat flows out. As a result I am losing weight and developing weakness. Please help.”
Confused? Disturbed? Just inquisitive? Write in any query on the mind, body and family to vartablog@gmail.com, and Dr. Tirthankar Guha Thakurta, teaching faculty at a Kolkata-based medical college, will be happy to answer them – with due respect to confidentiality.
When I was working as a junior resident in psychiatry at my mother institution in Kolkata, I had a chance to learn about a large number of interesting ‘cases’. One group of cases was related to nocturnal seminal discharge. Most such patients would say something like this: “Doctor, I am getting weaker day by day. I have lost my appetite, am losing weight, and my sleep is often disturbed. All this has started ever since I developed the bad habit of masturbation. Well, now I have stopped this bad habit. But a new problem has started ever since. My dhat (semen) is flowing out spontaneously, even without any sexual thoughts. Nightfalls have become more frequent. Even when I pass urine, dhat flows out. As a result I am losing weight and developing weakness. Please help.”
Semen has always been viewed as something
precious, a single drop of which has been equated with a thousand drops of
blood in some ancient literatures. No wonder this formed a belief in many
cultures that ‘wasting’ semen by masturbation was immoral or unjust, and that
the ‘use’ of semen (dhatu, beerja or veerya) should be only for procreation.
Popular sub-cultures also promote this
notion adding to the worry of a young man who would otherwise love to
masturbate. It is difficult not to notice the herbal remedy-men flooding the
streets of Esplanade in Kolkata with dhat-control pills and potions!
Let us now analyse the problems stated at
the start of this article. Even as a person stops masturbating, the normal
production of semen continues. The produced semen is stored in the testes until
their volume falls short. It is then that the semen flows out spontaneously, or
during sleep or urination. Compare this with an overflowing bucket with the tap
turned on.
As the person is primed with the notion
that loss of semen means loss of energy or blood, this creates an obvious
anxiety. That the person once masturbated adds to the guilt (masturbatory
guilt). In our society, this anxious, guilty fellow finds his peer group to be
the only place to confide. Most of them, equally primed by the ‘dhat theory’
reinforce his fear and guilt-system. The result is an anxiety disorder that
causes reduced sleep and appetite, palpitations, and in the long run weight
loss and weakness.
Now the question is what exactly causes the
weakness – the flow of semen, or the wrong notions that cause severe anxiety
and guilt? Answering this question forms the foundation of solving his problem.
Semen is formed by the male sexual organs
to be secreted. Storing semen is not physiological, and even a sperm bank will
pay no interest for that!
The only way this ‘dhat syndrome’ can be
solved is by educating people about the ‘normality’ of semen discharge.
Psychotherapy or counselling is the best way to prevent and treat this non-disease.
Drugs to treat anxiety related to semen discharge are rarely needed unless the
person has other spectrum of anxiety related disorders.
I hope our Ministry of Human Resource
Development reads this and considers sex education (in whatever name you
call or hide it) a necessity!
Confused? Disturbed? Just inquisitive? Write in any query on the mind, body and family to vartablog@gmail.com, and Dr. Tirthankar Guha Thakurta, teaching faculty at a Kolkata-based medical college, will be happy to answer them – with due respect to confidentiality.
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